Although lust starts as a thought, you must keep thinking on it for it to become a temptation.
Choosing to stay in my first thirteen-year abusive marriage almost ended in my death and my ex-husband’s death. Love fantasies are destructive, unwise, and deadly.
Whenever you wake up, you will experience change. You can’t stop change, and you can’t stop your body from dying. Change in your life will come.
Depending on the dynamics, standards, and version of love you grew up with you may not realize Christ’s love design. You may have accepted that being disrespected, blamed, shamed, and abused is normal when the person apologizes.
The first step to changing your design of love is to realize that your design is broken and unhealthy. The next step is to find a love design that is pure, respectful, and honoring and to live in this design.
Keep the Contagious Spirit of Christmas
December 18, 2018Christmas is the only holiday when people and communities are focused on being compassionate, generous, and caring for friends as well as strangers.
3 Choices for a Happy Christmas
December 4, 2018Choose to celebrate Christ’s birthday OR your past experiences. Intentionally choose to keep your focus and joy on Jesus and not on the world’s choice to fill it with self-absorbed reasons.
When abusers show their good side, it reminds their victims of what they fell for, and it brings FALSE hope. The victims wants her abusive husband to be healed and her marriage to be all she had hoped for.
Difficult Mother-in-Law: What to do at Thanksgiving?
November 13, 2018The first truth you must face is about your difficult mother-in-law is that you have NO control over what she will say or do. However, you don’t have to allow her to be abusive to you or your children in any way.