When you believe your identity originates or it is determined by imperfect people (including yourself), you will constantly feel a need to prove yourself, fix yourself, or punish yourself.
Top 3 Questions About Lust from Christians
February 26, 2019Although lust starts as a thought, you must keep thinking on it for it to become a temptation.
Choosing to stay in my first thirteen-year abusive marriage almost ended in my death and my ex-husband’s death. Love fantasies are destructive, unwise, and deadly.
When you only see love through the lens of your broken love design, it skews your understanding of Christ’s love. Through your broken love, you may create a faith fantasy to cope or to control your unhealthy or hurtful relationships
Feeling loved is the hope, wish, and dream of every person on this earth. Fantasy fuels your dream that if you had “a perfect man” who always thinks your beautiful, who doesn’t see any of your faults, and who will always do what you want, your life would be great.
Whenever you wake up, you will experience change. You can’t stop change, and you can’t stop your body from dying. Change in your life will come.
Depending on the dynamics, standards, and version of love you grew up with you may not realize Christ’s love design. You may have accepted that being disrespected, blamed, shamed, and abused is normal when the person apologizes.
I love spaghetti, I love music, and I love you; are phrases we use without much thought. What is your definition of love? What does love mean to you? How do you know you have found pure love? Where Do You Get Your Definition of Love? You’re not born with the understanding and knowledge of Christ pure love. The first…
Keep the Contagious Spirit of Christmas
December 18, 2018Christmas is the only holiday when people and communities are focused on being compassionate, generous, and caring for friends as well as strangers.